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Marriages in Muslim are representation of their beliefs and culture. An Islamic Marriage comprises of many different ceremonies. A Muslim wedding is basically a five day affair. Although a variety of ceremonies exist between different communities, the basic five-day structure is the same. The Islamic Weddings are not time bounded. There is no concept of auspicious timings and the Nikaah can take place at any time that is suitable and convenient to both the families. The marriage ceremony itself is called the Nikah. Marriage (nikah) is considered as an act of worship (ibadah). The marriage ceremony is a social as well as a religious activity. The bride and groom are separated, either in different parts of the hall, or in different rooms. Guests are traditionally also separated by gender, although in Western cultures they may be mixed. Marriages in Muslims are celeberated differently in different countries although this auspicious occasion brings the joy and happiness in one's life.

Muslim Marriage Customs :

Mehndi Ceremony : The Mehndi Ceremony is an important ritual and usually takes place one or two days before the actual wedding. The reddish brown color of Mehendi - which stands for the prosperity that a bride is expected to bring to her new family - is considered most auspicious for all wedding-related ceremonies. First a paste of turmeric and sandalwood powder is applied on the girls body. Then the gilrs hands and feets are adorned with beautifull mehndi designs. Mehndi or henna is considered to be Sunnah or traditional. This event is very colorful and full of traditional songs and dances. The event gives a festive touch to the celebration. The girl is surrounded by her friends and female relatives who also get their hands adorned with henna. According to the tradition, the girl hereafter is forbidden to step out of her home until she gets married. The Mehndi ceremony is also celebrated at the grooms place where the sisters and female relatives of the groom apply Mehndi on his hands and also apply turmeric and sandalwood paste on his body.

The actual Nikaah or wedding ceremony is traditionally done by the bride's side. The Islamic Weddings are not time bounded. There is no concept of auspicious timings and the Nikaah can take place at any time that is suitable and convenient to both the families. The groom comes with his baraat which consists of his family and friends and is welcomed by the bride’s family. A band of musicians strike up some traditional notes to welcomed by the bride’s family. A band of musicians strike up some traditional notes to announce their arrival.The bride usually wears a sharara, which is a long flowing skirt and blouse, and a dupatta to cover the head and the groom wears a sherwani or the traditional salwar and kurta. The nikaah ceremony is presided over by the qazi, or law officer. He appoints two men as witnesses (Gawah) on the groom's behalf, to receive orders for the nikah from the bride's family. In addition to the presence of two witnesses, the presence of the two 'Walis' (the bride's and the bridegroom's father) is also necessary - the girl's father to care for and protect her rights, and the boy's father to endorse his rights. In Islamic Weddings the validity of a Nikaah depends upon the acceptance of both the boys and the girls side. Once the marriage consent is given by both the parties , a Nikaah-nama must be signed by the bride, the bridegroom , their walis, the witnesses and the Qazi. The Nikaah-nama is a document in which the marriage contract is registered. After the Nikaah-Nama is signed, the Qazi delivers a sermon called Khutba, consisting of verses from the Quran which were recited by the prophet and which lay particular emphasis on obligations toward women. The Qazi explains the meaning of these verses to the audience with an explanation of the mutual rights and duties of the spouses. Once the contract is signed the Qazi declares them Husband and Wife and with the declaration the family members and the friends come and congratulate the newly wed. An essential part of the contract is Mahr. The marriage-gift (Mahr) is a divine injunction. The giving of mahr to the bride by the groom is an essential part of the contract. Mahr is a token commitment of the husband's responsibility and may be paid in cash, property or movable objects to the bride herself. The amount of mahr is not legally specified, however, moderation according to the existing social norm is recommended. The mahr may be paid immediately to the bride at the time of marriage, or deferred to a later date, or a combination of both. The deferred mahr however, falls due in case of death or divorce. Once all the formalities are over the newly wed couple dines at the house of the parents of the bride. Once the wedding formalities are over, the groom's family hosts a feast - Valimah, for relatives and friends. The purpose of Valimah is to publicise the marriage and give the bride an opportunity to meet relatives and friends.

Post-wedding Rituals

Rukshat

Rukshat is a farewell which is given to the bride at the time when she is leaving her fathers house. The family and friends of the bride gives her blessings and wish her luck for her new life.

Welcoming the bride

The groom's mother holds the Quran above the head of her new daughter-in-law as she enters her new home for the first time after the wedding.

Chauthi

The Chauthi is the fourth day after the wedding, when the bride visits the home of her parents. She receives a joyous welcome on this day.

There are plenty of things to consider in muslim wedding planning and arrangement. These are a few things which are either unknown or forgotten:

  1. Invite the poor

    Don't let your Walima be a class-based affair. Make sure that all guests are welcome, regardless of their economic situation.

  2. Invite a multiethnic audience

    Make your wedding party more representative of the Ummah (the worldwide Muslim community) by inviting Muslims of different ethnic backgrounds.

  3. Practice gender privacy at your wedding

    This means providing women-only space where sisters who observe different levels and types of Hijab feel comfortable.

    There are different ways to accommodate women-only space in a hall.
    • You can have separate rooms for men and women. This is the ideal solution for maximum privacy.
    • You can have a room in which there is a curtain or a row of tallplants.
    • In larger halls, you can make two distinct areas.

  4. Set up a hospitality line

    This is a line of hosts who will welcome guests when they arrive at the wedding.Those who will be included in the hospitality line need to be told in advance that they will be part of it. They should not be told once they reach the hall for the wedding.

  5. Have the hosts make rounds during dinner

    When guests are digging into dinner, hosts should go around, making sure everyone has what they need and inviting those who are finished to take more.

  6. Set the stage

    It should be decided by the hall committee who will sit on stage at the wedding and exactly where. This has to be done carefully. The feelings of relatives and close family friends are important to consider when making decisions about this.

  7. Make sure to set up a gift table

    Set up a specific gift table near the stage where all the gifts can be placed.

  8. Mind the bathrooms

    Take into account how many guests are coming and see if the washrooms at the hall are big enough. If it's a large gathering, request hall administrators to have a cleaning person come in every half hour or so to clean up quickly in between.

    Also, if one of the prayers occurs during the wedding, that means the washrooms will be used for Wudu (ablution before prayer). Ask the hall administrators to accommodate this by providing extra paper towels.

  9. Avoid making unnecessary announcements

    Avoid making unnecessary announcements of any sort during the program.


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